Rape?

Where is the line?
Today wile making out with the guy I've been using, I said to myself, "I don't want to be doing this." Wile I tried to make it obvious that I did not want to make out anymore, since he was getting a little hot and heavy... he continued, not getting my hints. Now to my understanding we have already had the "were just friends talk." Yet we have been making out a lot for the past couple weeks, but should that change the fact that we DID have the talk? No! It should not, at least that's my opinion on the situation.
He probably thought that I was really bad at making out because I was definitely not into the moment. Some part of me felt bad for the fucker, so I said "oh well." No, we didn't "do it" for all you sick assholes out there, we just made out.
The point to this blog entry, is as I stated before, Where is the line? Is it in your head? Is it when you say out loud "no?" As a major chapter in my current Ethics class, I've had a lot of time to think on this. In the legal system, rape is at the point where no is said out loud. I have also recently learned that a rapist will hardly ever do time. Unless it is a statutory rape, the rapist will at most get community service and probation for several years along with counseling. Uh... that's fucked up.
Anyway, to make a long story short. I was just concerned that maybe us girls are getting raped because we are too nice. Too nice to say no. WTF.